Me snapping at Iga, Iga snapping at Archie, Archie snapping at Iga, Dvader snapping at Iga, Steel being an asshole :P Agnates snapping at Edgecrusher, ASK calling people fanboys.

What's going on here? Am I noticing a trend or is it just in my head? We used to only have a big argument maybe once a year, twice max and then everyone was friends anyway at the end of it all.

Now it just seems like there are mini-conflicts all over the place.

I have to cite Skylock, because he was the most level headed poster I know, his theory and my theory is that conflict usually arises because we don't explain ourselves properly, which leads to mis-interpretation, which leads to arguments.

It's weird when someone takes what you say and replies "Yeah but..." and then says the same thing you meant anyway. So we were in agreement all the time right? :) Pointless arguments.

I think also, that sometimes we have to accept that people have WTF opinions and even if they are mind boggling and they hate a critically lauded game, you have to shrug it off. Sure if it's a semi-famous public figure i.e well known games journalist or celeb, that's fine to rag on them. But when it comes to arguing with otherwise reasonable people here? People are different and you should accept that, at least for the sake of peace and quiet.

So whenever things get heated, just remember one thing:

Aspro can't finish a Mario or Sonic game.

Posted by gamingeek Mon, 28 Jun 2010 14:27:02 (comments: 20)
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Tue, 29 Jun 2010 12:13:02
...I blame it all on Ask. He's a real douche-bag!

LOL
 
Tue, 29 Jun 2010 12:15:41

gamingeek said:

...

It's weird when someone takes what you say and replies "Yeah but..." and then says the same thing you meant anyway. So we were in agreement all the time right? Happy Pointless arguments.

...

Yeah that is what happens to me occasionally.  Someone will make a counterpoint to something I've said, and I completely agree with them.  So I tell them I agree with them, and then they assume I'm misunderstanding them since they disagree with me and .... then I give up and go away for a few days.

Forums are imperfect forms of communication.  There are no "non-verbal" cues to go off, no interruptions, no immediate clarifications.  So please consider this before you get into it with someone.  Maybe your very first post should be, "Are you saying that ...?"   Keep in mind also that a lot of the people you are interacting with may not speak english as their primary language.

I've cut myself off from society by choice, and this is the last place I come into contact with people, and after I read some posts I wonder if it is worth it at all.  

 
Tue, 29 Jun 2010 18:38:22
It's Iga's fault that I behave like an asshole.
 
Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:42:17

It's true I am a dick

Steel is an asshole

Put us together and we make Leo happy.

It actually all Leo's fault to be honest!

 
Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:46:39

Iga_Bobovic said:

It's true I am a dick

Steel is an asshole

Put us together and we make Leo happy.

It actually all Leo's fault to be honest!

LOL Post of the day.

 
Tue, 29 Jun 2010 23:08:14
FUCK YOU ALL!

...no really! Form a man-pile and get ready to be speared!
 
Wed, 30 Jun 2010 00:19:15
NUDE PILE-ON! WOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
 
Wed, 30 Jun 2010 01:36:44

phantom_leo said:
...I blame it all on Ask. He's a real douche-bag!

LOL

I was going to ask for a Ferrari too but forget it now.

Hrm

 
Wed, 30 Jun 2010 08:54:39

Iga_Bobovic said:

It's true I am a dick

Steel is an asshole

Put us together and we make Leo happy.

It actually all Leo's fault to be honest!

LOL

 
Wed, 30 Jun 2010 16:33:36

SteelAttack said:
FUCK YOU ALL.

Damnit, what did I just say, asshole?

ASK_Story said:

No seriously, I don't care. No offense taken...I'm only going to have a therapy session with my shrink about my horrible childhood, but other than that, no worries! Nyaa



I would wear an eye patch to make you feel better. And I would never wash it.

aspro said:
Fuck you. I beat SMG!

I tried to beat Sonic and Knuckles this weekend.  My wife made me stop.

Between your pie chart making and podcast-listening madness, I'm suprised you have time to breathe. It sounds like Mrs Aspro is the only thing keeping you, from walking around with your underpants on your head.

Foolz said:
Hmm...looks like 90% of the time it is Iga's fault! Nyaa

LOL

aspro said:

gamingeek said:

...

It's weird when someone takes what you say and replies "Yeah but..." and then says the same thing you meant anyway. So we were in agreement all the time right? Happy Pointless arguments.

...

Yeah that is what happens to me occasionally.  Someone will make a counterpoint to something I've said, and I completely agree with them.  So I tell them I agree with them, and then they assume I'm misunderstanding them since they disagree with me and .... then I give up and go away for a few days.

Forums are imperfect forms of communication.  There are no "non-verbal" cues to go off, no interruptions, no immediate clarifications.  So please consider this before you get into it with someone.  Maybe your very first post should be, "Are you saying that ...?"   Keep in mind also that a lot of the people you are interacting with may not speak english as their primary language.

I've cut myself off from society by choice, and this is the last place I come into contact with people, and after I read some posts I wonder if it is worth it at all.  

Yeah sometimes I start thinking, if were in a room discussing this face to face, no way would it turn out so heated. It seems like you're laughing or angry or whatever but in reality it would just be a shrug.

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