It hurts so bloody much.  For two weeks to be made to feel like Fred Astaire.  To have hopes, even dreams for a life less lonely ... for an existence less futile.

Then to be told in no uncertain terms that you can never be more than "just friends".

It hurts so much, to want something so bad, something you can never have.

PS Sorry to be heavy.

Posted by bugsonglass Wed, 10 Nov 2010 22:03:09 (comments: 36)
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Fri, 12 Nov 2010 10:21:17
Iga you crazy bastard. LOL

Here is some advice Bugs, introduce her to Iga. After 5 minutes she will come crying to you.
 
Fri, 12 Nov 2010 10:44:15

Thanks, you guys are priceless.  Between time-proven pearls of wisdom, psychotic revenge advice and man-ass,  you cheer me up...

I'm smiling, though my heart is still bleeding.

 
Sun, 21 Nov 2010 17:24:26

So today I agreed to meet, as friends, after a 10 day break from all communication.  So we spent the day together, as friends.  Went walking, had lunch, went walking some more, had a coffee, chilled and played backgammon ... as friends.  And then we parted, as friends.  The way I feel right now I might as well have picked off the scabs of my wounds with my nails and rubbed salt and alcohol in them.

I know i'm a pathetic idiot and it's all my fault for going along.  But this is how desperate I am.

Please don't feel you have to reply.  I realise i'm being a sad bastard and please don't feel you have to indulge me.  You've all been extremely helpful and supportive and I appreciate it more than my words can say.  It's my fault i'm not able to get over this and move on and i take full responsibility

 
Sun, 21 Nov 2010 18:53:53

Welcome to the Friend zone.

It's is like the Phantom Zone in Superman, but in the Friend zone not even the mighty Zod can escape.

 
Mon, 22 Nov 2010 03:56:13

The How to Serve Man episode of The Twilight Zone would be quite apt; or at least the short story's angst that inspired it. Sad

 
Mon, 22 Nov 2010 08:52:13
Dvader said:

^ LOL

For real, Bugs unless you really do want her as just a friend just stop hanging out with her. It will never work out as long as you are friends. Leave her, do your own thing, if its meant to be she will come back looking for you.



Yep.  She's sending mixed messages for sure.

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